Say Yes, Catch the Glass, and Keep Driving

Let’s talk about something that hit me right in the heart recently. I watched a reel from Julie Vioris — you know the kind that stops your scroll and makes you rethink your entire approach to life? She talked about a simple conversation that changed the rest of her journey. Someone asked if she’d ever…

July 30, 2025

Let’s talk about something that hit me right in the heart recently.

I watched a reel from Julie Vioris — you know the kind that stops your scroll and makes you rethink your entire approach to life? She talked about a simple conversation that changed the rest of her journey. Someone asked if she’d ever thought about teaching a group fitness class. That question led to a yes… and that yes changed everything. (you can watch it here)

It made me pause and think about how many times we say no — not because we can’t, but because fear gets in the way.

Julie said something I can’t stop thinking about:
There are two kinds of people in this world.

Those who say no when an opportunity shows up — because it’s scary, uncertain, or inconvenient. Fear takes the wheel, and they live a life of would’ve, could’ve, should’ve.
And those who say yes.
Even when it’s scary.
Even when they’re unsure.
Even when they have no idea how it’ll work out.

They let fear ride in the passenger seat, but they stay behind the wheel. That “yes” becomes a mindset, a daily habit, a practice.

And honestly? That’s who I want to be. That’s who I want my kids to see.

Because I don’t get to look my three kids in the eye and tell them to chase big dreams if I’m not chasing mine too. I don’t get to encourage them to do the hard things if I’m playing it safe. I want my life to match the words I speak into theirs.

And here’s the kicker: you don’t need motivation, luck, or perfect timing to build habits that shape your life. You just need to decide that your dreams are worthy, and that your actions should match.

What Would the Audience Be Screaming?

In another moment of divine timing, I was listening to Amy Porterfield interview Sahil Bloom (whose newsletter, by the way, is gold), and he asked this question:

“If you were the main character in a movie, what would the audience be screaming at you right now?”

Ugh. That one landed like a punch to the gut.

Because over the past few weeks, I’ve had run-ins with people who reminded me of older versions of myself:

“Didn’t you used to do TV segments?”
“Weren’t you the one with the blog?”
“I loved your podcast!”

And every time, it made me smile… and then wince. Because I loved that part of my life. The creative energy. The storytelling. The connection. The chance to use my voice in a meaningful way.

But somewhere along the way, I let that version of me go. Life got full. I dropped a ball.

The Glass and the Plastic

Here’s what I’ve come to learn from Nora Roberts and I have written about it in a past post about juggling priorities:

“The key to juggling is knowing which balls are glass and which are plastic.”

Right now, my kids and the ice cream shop we’re launching? They’re the glass balls. They’re fragile. They matter more. And sometimes that means letting a few plastic balls — like the podcast — drop.

But here’s the thing about plastic balls: they bounce.

And lately, I’ve been feeling this nudge. Maybe, just maybe… it’s time to pick the mic back up. Even if it’s imperfect. Even if it’s just once a month. Even if it’s squeezed between carpool and countertops full of sprinkles and receipts.

Because that podcast? It brings me joy. And we all deserve to hold on to a few things that bring us joy.

Reclaiming the Driver’s Seat

Sahil Bloom also shared something else I’ve written down and returned to again and again:

“Never, ever give up your agency. The belief that you are capable of taking action and creating a desired outcome.”

“No one is coming to save you. But you are capable of climbing back all on your own.”

You are at the wheel of your life. Always. And fear? It can ride along. But it doesn’t get to drive.

So, What Now?

So this is me — saying yes. Picking up the mic again. Not every week. Not perfectly. But with purpose. Dusting off my podcast equipment and getting back on the mic. Listen here.

If you’ve been waiting to pick something back up — a dream, a project, a version of you — let this be your nudge. Your friendly reminder that plastic balls bounce, and glass ones deserve your care.

Let fear ride in the passenger seat if it must… but you? You stay behind the wheel.

Create your life on purpose. With purpose.
Because your dreams are worthy.

Jenna Urban

Jenna Urban once immersed in suits, now thrives in sweatpants. As the owner of Urban Mac Media, she spent 17 years teaching before transitioning to higher education—which didn’t unfold as expected. This ultimately led Urban to pivot towards her family’s businesses – Lawn and Order Landscaping and LMJ Sheds. Whether seeking direction, contemplating a career change, or aiming for self-fulfillment, Urban strives to instill clarity, confidence, and courage, enabling clients to recognize their unique and impactful purposes. She writes about her transformative shift from traditional work to entrepreneurial success.