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Making Points Where They Count The Most

“I love to watch you play.” That is what we are told that we should be saying to our children on the ride home. Years ago, I struggled when I heard people suggest that and even argued if it was possible for me to say that if I didn’t mean it.

I get it… it’s fun to watch them play when they are little. It’s joyful to see them giggle on the court/field and play with their friends. But it was different for me because I was also their coach. As they got older, they wanted to hear from me what they were doing right and also what they were doing wrong.

It took me years to find that balance and to put boundaries around those conversations.
It took stepping back on my end and making decisions to not coach them at times. It has been a struggle to find that balance and to sit back at times to let someone else coach a child that you love so much, but I can finally say with all honesty to my kids, “I love to watch you play.”

But I still give the space for them to ask what they need to do to get better. I will never stop coaching my kids to be the best version of themselves, on and off the court.

Listen to more about my experience with coaching youth sports on the podcast episode Making Points Where They Count The Most.

Thank you to Jeannine Luby for having me on your podcast.

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Never Stop Throwing Candy and Be that girl!

Worry less. Be like her! Easier said than done. But recently, I took the leap, actually a cannonball right into the pool! Let’s move back a little to how I got to that mindset to never stop throwing candy and to be that girl again…

 

I recently finished the book “Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living” by Shuana Niequist. To say that I fell in love with her words and writing would be an understatement. It motivated me to live more in the present and put aside the hustling and rushing of life (not that I have a choice right now because there is no where to hustle, but I am grateful to be invited to this new norm).

Today I was going through my post it notes and one chapter caught my eye and kinda reminded me of why I posted the above image last week in The Hat Club Community.  The notes were from the chapter called “Throwing Candy”, The chapter talked about a tradition at a lake where people would throw candy at the kayakers as they passed. I don’t mean throwing candy in the sense of throwing it AT them by means of hitting innocent kayakers for your own sick enjoyment, but throwing it AT them for them to catch.. Why did they do it? Because it makes people happy. It’s fun to do. It’s fun to receive. It’s a little treat.

The chapter continued on to say that this day was a particular crazy day with various boats docking, children swimming, and kayakers coming down the coastline. A lot of things could go wrong and the author explains how she was more focused on what could go wrong than the throwing of candy, until someone she was with rushed down to the dock amidst all the chaos and made sure he threw the candy. The kayakers smiled, he enjoyed himself, the kids were safe, all was well. It was at that time that the author states that she began to cry because she used to be that person who would throw the candy amidst the chaos. She used to be that person who could let responsibility go and enjoy the moment – but now she had become the person who made fun of those throwing candy stating “Who has that kind time?”  Sound familiar?

That led me into taking the leap or jump into the pool. My kids are always asking me to come swim with them and I always have an excuse. My main excuse is that I spent at least 8 years in the baby pool, which felt like an eternity. Remember having to put on a bathing suit for the first time after children and then feeling like you are never getting out of the baby pool!  Yes, that feeling! Some of you may still be in the baby pool and just know, that it will get better.

So, I am in this season that my kids all know how to swim and I can sit and read while watching them on the sidelines. I could enjoy a little of that in between the fights and “watch this” or “can you video me”. There are boundaries when I am reading a book because again, it’s time for me to relax a little. But, last Monday on Memorial Day, we weren’t running off to any parties like previous years and we weren’t hosting any guests and of course, it was another COVID holiday- just different. The kids were swimming and Jaxon just got out of the pool to dry off when I asked him to come closer to the pool to pick up the skimmer. At that moment, I decided to take the leap (well, it was a cannonball like I mentioned above). The look on the faces of my kids were priceless and later that night, Mollie (my 10 year old) mentioned how earlier that day, Jaxon (8 year old) had asked her “Why doesn’t mommy ever swim?” And just like that- for a brief moment, the kids forgot about being in quarantine and I forgot about all the worries that I had about cold water or trying to claim my time on the sidelines.

My challenge to you is to take the leap, dance in the rain, jump in the pool…whatever makes you happy. Think about that little girl who walked around barefoot on the sidewalk in the summer sun. Why was I always putting responsibility too far ahead of fun. I was also the person who made fun of those throwing the candy having said “Who has time??” far too many times. It’s a quality I loathe about myself and quite honestly I’m not sure how it became a trait of mine – I have some ideas but none of them really seem to scream out, “Yes!! It was ME!”

Either way, last weekend I decided it was time for a change. I know that if I can take on poor traits, habits, and qualities that I can also take on better habits, traits, and qualities that can push those other ones out of their place in the hierarchy.  I also know that this is going to be difficult to do. Any new habit that you start comes with growing pains, trials, and struggles. Sometimes it’s just easier to go back to what you know and what makes you comfortable; however, it doesn’t have to stay that way.

Over the weekend, I want you to look at some traits, qualities, or habits that you may have adopted along the way that are holding you back from throwing the candy. What is it in your life that you really just feel is a weight? Make sure you choose the one that makes you the most afraid of changing, because it is most likely going to be that one that when altered, sets you free the most.

Come back and let us know how you felt doing those things. Be that girl!

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Earn Cash Back for Shopping With Rakuten

 

Earn Cash Back!

Do you plan on shopping for back to school or getting a jump on the holidays? What if I told you that you can earn cash back with not only online shopping, but shopping in store as well!

Get Cash Back rewards at your favorite stores! Enjoy unbeatable shopping deals and save with promo codes & coupons from Rakuten (formerly Ebates).

Rakuten helps you buy the things you want & save at the same time. Earn Cash Back on your vacations, find the best discount deals at your favorite stores and shop clothes from top brands.

Save money and sign up for a FREE account – it’s easy! Explore deals, shop at 2,500+ stores AND earn Cash Back when you buy. You’ll also get a $10 Welcome Bonus! (Plus, sign up now and once you spend $25, you will earn a bonus $10 just for using Rakuten)

Ready to unlock some amazing savings?

Personally, I have been doing a lot of online shopping, but there are times that I find myself in stores searching for an in-store coupon, which makes me super excited for the RAKUTEN app.

3 reasons you’ll love the Rakuten app:

• Shop & save: Earn up to 40% Cash Back

• 2,500+ stores: Macy’s, Sephora, BestBuy Kohl’s, Nike, QVC & many more!

• Buy the best brands: Enjoy offers on best-selling brands like Samsung, Nike and Sephora.

 

CASH BACK & COUPONS ON RAKUTEN

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• Get Cash Back on every single order from Grubhub, Domino’s, Postmates & Caviar

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• Save on top brands like Nike, Samsung, Levi’s, plus many more

How Online Cash Back Works

Want to earn money by shopping online?   I have a huge secret to share with you called Rakuten , an online rebate sites that can earn you cash back with every online purchase. Plus, Rakuten offers online coupon codes to save money while you earn cash back. Plus, earn a $10 gift card when you sign up.

When I first started reading coupon blogs, I had no idea that you can get rebates when making purchases online. Rakuten is an online rebate centers that offer cash back on  online purchases.  When you sign up for an account, you will receive a $10 Gift Card once you spend $25 online within 60 days of signing up for the services. (not too hard to do around the holidays right around the corner)

 

How In-Store Cash Back Works

You can earn Cash Back shopping in person at select stores, just like you do online.

• Earning Cash Back in store is easy with Rakuten. Simply add your credit card to the app, link the offers of the stores where you shop, and pay with your linked card.

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Head over here to sign up for Rakuten.com  and starting earning cash back for your online purchases.

 

 

 

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Monitoring kids online activity- Bark app keeps kids safe online

Monitoring kids online activity- Bark app keeps kids safe online

Have you noticed your kid buried deep in their devices watching TikToks or playing Animal Crossing lately? I encourage you to have conversation with your child about their online habits and come up with a plan for healthy online activity. We found the perfect solution for monitoring kids online activity called the Bark app.

 

BARK App keeps kids Save Online.

Last week, I started doing some research for my students to find some resources to help manage screen time. Up to this point, we were just using Screen Time (listed below) and I would just take it upon myself to check their devices. It was getting to be exhausting, so I was grateful when my research led me to Bark app.  It’s an absolute must for busy parents who are interested in knowing when and if their children come across something that could possibly cause a problem online. Bark app allows you to monitor over 30 platforms from text messages to social media channels. When Bark detects an issue, you get an automatic alert via email and even includes expert recommendations to make it easy for parents to talk to kids about digital dangers and other sensitive online issues. It did take me some time to set up for my three children, but it’s already been worth the time. Bark app costs $50-100 annually depending on the level of functionality desired, for younger children it’s a monthly charge of $5 and can go up to $14 depending on your desired tools. You can also check out the special code below for readers to save 20% for annual subscription. Check out one of the alerts that was sent to my email last night due to profanity in a youtube video that my 13 year old was watching. Not only did it give me the alert, but look below for some of the expert advice to how I should talk to Lucas about the profanity.

Parents- exciting new updates to Bark‘s screen time and web filtering features for iOS, Androids, and Chromebooks! Added Roblox, Minecraft, Fortnite, Discord, Omegle, & Zoom to your screen time dashboard for quick toggling off or on. This allows you to restrict network access to these apps to prevent online activity if needed to both websites and web-app features! 🙌 Too much Fortnite happening? (Toggle) to take a break. Don’t want them accessing Zoom when classes not scheduled? Done! Want a safer Minecraft (sans strangers?) You got it! Want to customize and add in your own individual sites and web apps? You can do that, too!

Special pricing – Sign up now for a free one-week trial of Bark and 20% off Bark for life using code 5X7FJ6N at checkout. 

Parenting in a Tech World, our Facebook group that helps parents navigate the challenges of raising kids today.

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Remote Learning STEM Resources

Welcome WNEP viewers!

Well, just when we thought that it was only going to be a few months out of school -here we go again! We are all faced with the difficult decision about the upcoming school year, but we are going to give you some piece of mind to help you find balance with remote learning, especially to make sure that your children are still learning future skills.  With the recent concerns and new guidelines surrounding the Coronavirus, many families still don’t know what the school year ahead will look like. What can families do for teaching and learning of the future? Today we are going to showcase and discuss some of the latest toys and children’s products that will incorporate jobs and skills in the classroom (no matter where that is) alongside STEM.

STEAM education is sweeping the nation. School districts are scrambling to provide programs from robotics competitions to coding games while teachers filter through thousands of Pinterest pins in search of quality STEAM activities. Parents are not far behind, investing in board games and science kits with STEAM seal of approval. STEM, which is educational focus in science, tech, engineering and math, has recently been changed to STEAM, to include the arts. But now what? What should parents do that we may be back to remote learning?

We can’t just ignore the facts!

In an online article on Times Higher Education, Professor Martin Boehm of IE Business School in Spain made a startling prediction stating; “Eighty per cent of jobs that will exist in 2025 don’t exist today; we have to prepare our students and graduates for a world that’s essentially not possible to prepare them for.”

Teachers are preparing students for jobs that do not exist today and for a world where technology including artificial intelligence, will dominate day-to-day life. In short, students need to gain more respect for independent learning. We need to be educating our elementary students for the workplace of 2030 and beyond, which can be done through STEAM.

According to the US Department of Education, the number of STEM/STEAM jobs in the United States will grow by 14% from 2010 to 2020, growth that the BLS terns as “much faster “ than the national average of 5-8 % across all job sectors. Before we get started with STEM, let’s talk a little about online safety. A few months ago, I shared some Internet Safety Remote During Remote Learning  but I can’t express enough how much we loved using Bark this summer.

Many parents are worried about the time spent on the screen during the “remote school day” and bark has the solution.  And since we are friends, I am going to share how you can get 20% off with the special code below. 

bARK App for Online Protection in Remote Learning

At the start of the summer, I did some research for my students to find some resources to help manage screen time. Up to this point, we were just using Screen Time on our iphone and I would just take it upon myself to check their devices. It was getting to be exhausting, so I was grateful when my research led me to bark app.  It’s an absolute must for busy parents who are interested in knowing when and if their children come across something that could possibly cause a problem online. bark app allows you to monitor over 30 platforms from text messages to social media channels. When bark detects an issue, you get an automatic alert via email and even includes expert recommendations to make it easy for parents to talk to kids about digital dangers and other sensitive online issues. It did take me some time to set up for my three children, but it’s already been worth the time. Bark app costs $50-100 annually depending on the level of functionality desired, for younger children it’s a monthly charge of $5 and can go up to $14 depending on your desired tools. You can also check out the special code below for readers to save 20% for annual subscription. Check out one of the alerts that was sent to my email last night due to profanity in a youtube video that my 13 year old was watching. Not only did it give me the alert, but look below for some of the expert advice on how I should talk to Lucas about the profanity.

SPECIAL PRICING – SIGN UP NOW FOR A FREE ONE-WEEK TRIAL OF bARK AND 20% OFF BARK FOR LIFE USING CODE 5X7FJ6N AT CHECKOUT. 

Coding during Remote Learning

Why coding?

Coding teaches children another language and fosters creativity.

By experimenting, children learn and strengthen their brains. Even when they make a mistake they learn. Children can be creative and creativity is encouraged. Creativity is part of the process and not always the product. Children who learn to code understand how to plan and organize thoughts.  This can lead to better writing skills that can be built upon as coding skills develop over time. Coding is a basic literacy in the digital age, and it is important for kids to understand and be able to work with and understand the technology around them.

Having children learn coding at a young age prepares them for the future.  Coding helps children with communication, creativity, math, writing, and confidence. 

Vex 123 

Hex just came on with a new program called Vex 123 – Take coding off the screen and bring it to life!

Vex 123 Introduce coding to students as young as 4 years old. Take coding off the screen and bring it to life! Vex follows a sequence of instructions- starting with the robot -vex 123, 
then you can pair it with the Vex coder to customize the code. You can also use it with the free app Vex 123, which is a coding curriculum that teaches logic and problem solving skills for life. 

No Devices? No Problem! The 123 robot is programmable without a computer. Using the VEX Coder and physical cards, you can learn real programming away from screens.

Kits starting at $99. Grades Pre-K – 2.

Snap Circuits – Learn by Doing

Snap Circuits by Elenco is an educational toy that teaches electronics with snap-together electronic components to learn how circuits work. Each component has the schematic symbol and a label printed on its plastic case that is color coded for easy identification. They snap together with ordinary clothing snaps. Snap Circuits offers a variety of kits starting for kids as young as 8. We put together the Bric Structures set since my kids are super into Legos.  This set will breathe new life into toys you already own and provide endless possibilities as kids use what they learn from working through provided projects to build whatever they imagine. These are great toys for those interested in Engineering, electricity, circuits and exciting projects.

Magformers

STEM toys provide a great level of educational entertainment, often to where kids don’t even realize they’re learning at the same time. Educational toys provide kids tools and methods to explore new and creative ways of problem-solving, displaying data, innovating, and linking multiple fields.   Whether you have basic blocks in your house or Magformers like I have here, construction toys have provided children (regardless of gender or ability) a venue for creative thought and problem solving skills.

Magformers Amazing Rescue 50-Piece Set

  • Click and create your own adventure with Magformers AMAZING Rescue 50-Piece Set. 
  • Magformers are a magnetic construction toy where the possibilities are endless. 
  • Build and create your own fire adventure. 
  • Build a fire station and fire truck, add wheels and fire accessories. 
  • This 50 piece set comes with 24 magnetic pieces, 2 characters and emergency vehicle accessories and much more to keep the city safe.
  • MSRP $59.99
  • Ages 3+

Stick-O Basic 20Pc Set

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  • Explore and build with The Stick-O Basic 20 Piece Set. 
  • Young builders can discover the joy of playtime with the rainbow-colored magnetic shapes including, 6 Sticks, 4 Sphere, 2 Curve sticks, 2 Half Sphere, 3 Cones, and 3 Discs. Stick-O is fun, safe and teaches toddlers basic STEM education principles. 
  • MSRP $29.99
  • Ages 18m+

TACTILE ACTIVITIES 

Adults and kids are understandably feeling nervous and worried about COVID-19, but did you know that tactile activities are a treat for the senses and can also help to generate a sense of calm? Kids are engaging their sense of touch and for so many kids, tactile activities can be such a relaxing, calming, regulating activity. 

DOLCE Primo Anteater

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  • The Anteater does not get any cuter than this toy.  It’s a very colorful character that comes with a teether, squeaks, and crinkles.  
  • It helps by keeping children busy with plenty of activities.  
  • A silicone teether is kept safe in the pocket, while the bead rattle on the left helps to improve children’s sound recognition.
  •  On the right foot, the crinkle peek-a-boo door can be opened and closed.
  • Material: A high quality, safe design means babies can use different parts of the toy as teethers.
  • Touch: The different textures and the crinkle feet are incredibly satisfying and fun for children to play with.
  • The 3D design helps toddlers to differentiate patterns through tactile play.
  • The toy helps to connect your babies motor skills with auditory learning through its squeaking and rattling.
  • Visual learning is provoked through color perception.
  • Soft parts for use as a teether toy. Non – Toxic (Formaldehyde Free, BPA Free)
  • MSRP $39.99
  • Ages 0m+

Blockaroo

Blockaroo Toys are a cost-friendly toy that kids won’t get tired of since there are so many possibilities for what they can create. No batteries required, which is another bonus and they are dishwasher safe and can even go into the bath tub.Some educational benefits is that Blockaroos promote development of essential STEM skills during the early years of your child’s life. Perfect for little ones 18 months to 6 and even could be beneficial for sensory development with special needs children. Blockaroos includes skills like fine motor, counting and sorting, problem solving and engineering. Don’t forget about imaginative play, which is so important at an early age.

NATIONAL GEOGRAPHIC STEM KITS

Don’t not be fooled by just any STEM kit. We are seeing the STEM stamp on more and more toys, but many are not true STEM kits. However, with a brand like National Geographic, you can’t go wrong. Their range of STEM kits create an educational adventure which makes learning fun. Each kit has a collector’s corner specimen to display and a National Geographic learning guide in full colour, packed with amazing facts. Check out all the National Geographic STEM kits.

3Doodler

3Doodler is another unique screen-free play option that we have been using for years. 3 Doodler even offers an EDU program for schools that includes lesson plans and support for teachers. There are even video tutorials for kids to follow along as they create.  There are sets for learners as young as 4 with Build & Play, the Start set for ages 6-13 and the Create for ages 14 and up. The EDU features sets for k-12. They also offer Learn From Home Sets, which are perfect for learning from anywhere! Paired with our free stencils, lessons, & webinars, students can explore STEM through tactile tech from home while having a ton of fun.

Don’t worry about giving too much instruction. Children are natural scientists. Let them explore and discover, then reflect on what they discovered by asking how and why that happened. The goal is to teach “21st-century skills”, which refers to skills such as collaboration, digital literacy, critical thinking, and problem-solving that students need to learn to thrive in today’s world. We all need to reflect on how we learned best during school. Most of us remember the times when we were able to experiment, dissect or bake. We need to look back to the future. Marty McFly would STEAM Ahead and we should too. 

Want to connect? Come Hang out with us in The Hat Club. Or get a glimpse of the wonderful women in the club that have been featured on The Hat Club Podcast.